Too many topics, too little time

where the boys are…. …isn’t where I want to be these days. Shelley convinced me to join the blogunlimited list, after the blogrollers list… [mamamusings]

Well I joined the blogunlimited list after Liz posted it, and i see similar problems, the tone is that of debate, instead of conversation. It is contention, and and either – or mentality, that of high modernism, corporate life, and similar debatable constructs. It doesn't have to be that way, but usually it is and it has alot less to do with gender than it has to do with the life of competition that people lead, which is more wrought out of historical developments than gender, though it is highly gendered.